Creating A Stronger Than Failure Mindset Changed My Life
Life wasn't always easy. Allow me to explain.
Where do I begin.
My mom, my best-friend, just lost her battle to stage 4 cancer, which completely crushed me. (She is the strongest person I know and who I gained my mental toughness from).
I battled anxiety for years. It was so bad that I would avoid going places, and gatherings with friends, or having to immediately leave places I was at. I remember just walking in the grocery store one time getting some bananas for my smoothie and the crippling emotional demon of anxiety hit me and I had to almost run out so I would feel "safe".
I had a thyroid problem that caused me to gain 50 lbs. and feel horrible about myself because my clothes no longer fit me and I was out of shape.
My little brother was a heroin addict who overdosed three times. (Thank God he is still here and clean!)
My dad was a crack addict who unfortunately passed when I was in my 20's.
I fell 4 stories and broke my back.
I got bullied in school.
I had no confidence and had the worst luck with the opposite sex.
I remember getting cheated on but telling myself to, "just let it go because everyone makes mistakes," because I didn't think I could do better or that I deserved better.
But things had finally got to a point where I was tired of it all. I was tired of feeling bad about myself. I was tired of making excuses of why I couldn't meet the right girl. I was tired of not making good money.
I was tired of living the life I was living. I wanted more and I know I was meant for more. I knew that I had in no way maximized my full potential as a man or as a human being.
And the only way to maximize my full potential and become happier and more successful in life was to change my mindset. If you want to make a change you must first change the way you think, everything else will follow.
So that's what i did. I started the journey of mastering my mindset.
And that is when everything in my life changed for the better.
If you want to improve your health, you have to improve your mindset!
If you want to improve your how you experienced the world, you have to improve your mindset!
If you want to be more resilient when challenges arise in your life, you have to improve your mindset!
If you want to make more money, you have to improve your mindset!
If you want to improve your relationship, you have to improve your mindset!
If you want to improve your level of confidence and self-worth, you have to improve your mindset!
If you want to be happier and more satisfied in life, you have to improve your mindset!
I learned that your mindset determines everything and have dedicated my life to helping other men becoming the best versions of themselves and changing their lives for the better.
If I can do it, so can you!